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Mitch Axelrod, shown here with his ex-wife Anita
Axelrod and their son 11-year-old Adam, says Columbine compelled him
to switch his career focus to helping people make values-based
decisions. He also spends more time with Adam. (Photo by Jeff
Zelevansky) |
THE VALUES AND PHILANTHROPY BEAT
Columbine Shootings Resonate More in Individual
Lives Than in American Society

By MARK
O'KEEFE c.2000 Newhouse News
Service |
WASHINGTON -- On a sunny, gusty morning in front of the
Capitol, Patti Nielson's blond hair rippled in the wind as her prepared
notes nearly blew away.
"I'm here today," said Nielson, a
Littleton, Colo., art teacher shot in the shoulder nearly a year ago,
"because I was wondering, why hasn't Congress done anything to prevent
what happened at Columbine from happening again?"
The first
anniversary of the shooting at Columbine High School is April 20. Because
13 people were murdered and 23 wounded at a place considered safe,
Columbine deeply shook students, parents, educators and the general
public.
For many Americans, the single word, Columbine, still
evokes images of panicked teen-agers fleeing their suburban school. It may
be the most memorable tragedy of a decade, as the explosion of the space
shuttle Challenger was to the 1980s.
While Columbine has been an
impetus for individuals -- prompting them to change their parenting styles
and career paths, for instance -- it doesn't appear to have sparked any
wide societal reform.
The event has been invoked to justify
everything from posting the Ten Commandments in public schools to cracking
down on violent video games to lowering taxes so that parents can afford
to spend more time with their children. But Gallop polls show no
significant shifts in attitudes about Patti Nielson's passion, gun
control. Nor has Columbine produced significant change on any other major
issue.
"I don't see Columbine, by itself, as having that profound
of an effect," said Robert Schulzinger, professor of history at the
University of Colorado in Boulder. "There has to be a variety of blues
coming from different directions to really change people's opinions.
People are back, not to euphoria, but certainly to a state of
satisfaction."
Frank Newport, editor in chief of the Gallup Poll,
said flatly: "Columbine wasn't a watershed for anything. That's because
the economy has been so important."
Nielson, the wounded teacher
who dialed 911 from the Columbine library, came to Washington this month
to call for new federal gun control laws.
From a few days after the
shooting to the present, President Clinton has cited Columbine as a reason
for more federal gun control. He set April 20 as a deadline for Congress
to pass legislation, but has recently conceded that's unlikely to
happen.
On Wednesday, Clinton plans to go to a Denver rally for
Colorado gun control laws. He'll hold a nationally televised town hall
meeting afterward, then join NBC News anchor Tom Brokaw for a program at
the University of Denver.
Generally, Democrats blame Columbine on
the easy availability of guns, while Republicans point to a lack of
values.
Three days after the shootings, Colorado Gov. Bill Owens, a
Republican, said the massacre revealed "a virus loose within our culture,"
which he later described as moral decay.
Owens, who has supported
some gun control initiatives, said in an interview this month that there
is still "a sickness in the land." He added that "we've changed for the
worse recently and I think we can change for the better, but it's a
challenge."
As an example, Owens said he grew up with a choice of
three television stations, all in black and white. He remembered "Ozzie
and Harriet," "Bonanza" and "Father Knows Best," and said, "There are
values transmitted through those shows -- values that are denigrated
today, but values I'd love to see on TV."
If Columbine has had any
widespread effect, it has been in the area of school safety. Schools
nationwide have added conflict-resolution exercises, peer-mediation
programs, video cameras and in some instances metal
detectors.
Carlos Sundermann, program director for the National
Resource Center for Safe Schools, based in Portland, Ore., said Columbine
did focus attention on school safety. But he sees more "Band-Aid" fixes
than recognition that school violence is a complex problem requiring
coordination among schools, parents and communities.
Overall,
school violence has not been worsening. Statistics compiled by the U.S.
Department of Education, which partially funds Sundermann's program, show
that school violence in most categories actually decreased or stayed level
between 1993 and 1997, the latest reporting period available.
"More
kids die at home and in their community than at school," Sundermann said.
"School is one of the safest places to be in our society. That's a fact.
Unfortunately, when you have a highly publicized event like Columbine,
people tend to think, `Oh my God, things are terrible."'
Television
violence has also remained level. According to a study released last month
by the Parents Television Council, incidents of TV violence occurred at
about the same rate in 1999 as they did in 1989. But measured per hour,
sexual material tripled in the last 10 years.
Those who see
Columbine as a prime example of moral decay have had more receptive
audiences this year. In social conservative circles, the problem is simply
identified as "the culture."
"Two years ago, we had to define it,"
said Cherie S. Harder, policy director for Sen. Sam Brownback, R-Kansas.
"People didn't realize what it meant. They thought the senator was talking
about paintings or something. Columbine helped transform the debate,
showing that the environment one grows up in shapes character."
If
America woke up last April 20, it was to divergent realities, not
consensus. And if Columbine exposed a virus, its name could not be agreed
upon,much less its remedy. For the general public, Columbine was a tragedy
in relative isolation.
It wasn't like 1968. That year, the Rev.
Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated, a weeklong protest ended in 700
arrests at New York's Columbia University, Sen. Robert F. Kennedy was
murdered while campaigning for president and rioters nearly took over the
1968 Democratic Convention.
"All those things together really shook
people, really convinced people society was falling apart," said
Schlezinger, the Colorado professor who has written books about other
attitude-shifting periods, particularly the Vietnam War and World War
II.
Columbine was one in a string of school shootings that included
Jonesboro, Ark., Springfield, Ore. and Paducah, Ky. -- but that still
wasn't enough to alarm the general public.
"It's awful to say,"
Schlezinger said, "but there has to be an escalation of the violence.
Columbine raised the bar for what was going to shock."
A handful of
states, including California and Massachusetts, have passed stricter gun
control laws since the Columbine shootings, and several others are
considering legislation. Columbine helped those efforts, but there has
been no sea change of public opinion.
Last summer, the Gallup Poll
asked Americans, "What do you think is the most important problem facing
the country today?" For the first time since Gallup began asking that
question in 1950, the top concern -- cited by 18 percent of respondents --
was ethics, morality and family decline.
Some linked that finding
to lingering worries about Columbine. Other analysts said it reflected a
lack of traditional concerns, such as war or the economy, during this
period.
Guns and gun control were listed as the top concern by 10
percent of those surveyed.
In March of this year, Gallup asked the
question again. The top concern, cited by 16 percent, was education,
followed closely by ethics and morality at 15 percent. Guns and gun
control came in eighth at 8 percent.
"Gun control attitudes did not
significantly change because of Columbine," said Gallup's
Newport.
While Columbine has failed to move the nation to concerted
action, it has transformed individuals.
Kaela Austin, 61, decided
not only to keep working, but to add a radio audience to the family and
child counseling clients she's had in Los Angeles for 25 years.
"I
would be playing golf twice a week, retired, if it weren't for Littleton,"
Austin said.
Her radio call-in show is called "License to
Parent."
"The point connected to Columbine is that if you don't
listen to children, there will be another Columbine," Austin
said.
A consultant, writer and motivational speaker, Mitch Axelrod
of West Orange, N.J., found a new mission and career through
Columbine.
"For the last 20 years my livelihood was made helping
companies improve their profitability and marketability," said Axelrod,
45, who has just finished a study of nearly 3,000 people in which he
attempts to measure their values. "The next 20 years will be totally
focused on values and values-based decisions."
Axelrod, who
divorced four years ago and has joint custody of his 11-year-old son,
Adam, now deliberately spends more time at home.
"I'm Mr. Mom now,"
he said. "We have justified our time away from our kids by saying they get
quality time, even though they don't get quantity time. But quantity time
is important. Having parents around gives kids a sense of
security."
For Karen Anderson, 45, the Columbine shootings weren't
a wake-up call, but validation that morals and values are
plummeting.
Anderson, married 25 years, is editor of a home-based
Internet newsletter on women and their families. Her 15-year-old daughter
attends a private Christian school outside Nashville, Tenn. Another
daughter is finishing her senior year with family friends in Fort Worth,
Texas.
Last year, the Andersons decided to simplify their lives.
They moved from Texas to a small house on five acres in Lawrenceburg,
Tenn., where the cost-of-living is more manageable and they can pay off
debt.
"For me, this tragedy reinforced that I'm doing the right
thing," Anderson said.
Since Columbine, Anderson has been even more
vigilant in monitoring her younger daughter's use of America Online, her
attendance at PG- or R-rated movies and her purchase of popular music with
potentially violent lyrics.
Anderson said she and her daughter have
been inspired by Christian recording artist Michael W. Smith's album,
"This is Your Time," which recounts the life and death of Cassie Bernall,
a Columbine student who, according to a book written by her mother, was
asked by one of the killers if she believed in God. When she said yes,
Bernall was shot and killed.
While some have disputed what exactly
happened in the Columbine library that day, Anderson said that it doesn't
really matter, because "this is a story touching kid's hearts."
In
Washington, meanwhile, others try to turn heartfelt concern into political
action.
Nielson, on the blustery spring morning of the gun control
news conference, stood next to Rep. Carolyn McCarthy, D-N.Y. Redbook, the
women's magazine and sponsor of the event, had filled bags with pledges of
support for gun control from 11,000 readers.
"I have spent
countless hours since that day a year ago, April 20, wondering how a thing
like this could happen," said Nielson, who was shot by Eric Harris. (He
and his accomplice, Dyland Klebold, died of self-inflicted gunshot
wounds.) "Many blame our society that promotes violence in movies, TV,
video games and music. Others have pointed to poor parenting. People are
blaming the school and the police for somehow not knowing what these boys
were planning. ...
"The fact is all we know for sure is that if
they hadn't gotten those guns, they would have never killed those innocent
people."
Life has been difficult for Nielson since the shooting.
She suffers from anxiety attacks, becomes frightened by firecrackers and
other loud noises and has taken an open-ended leave of absence from
Columbine High School.
With all that she has gone through
personally, how does she regard the fact that there has been so little
societal change?
"Change," she responded, "comes about slowly."
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